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Mon, 12 Dec 2011 08:15:35 -0500

Online Dating! A Simple Process to Stop Being Alone!
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Can’t Get a Date? What’s The Problem? http://t.co/lc6SzAWH

Mon, 12 Dec 2011 08:12:58 -0500

Can’t Get a Date? What’s The Problem?
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Men and the Madonna Complex http://ping.fm/qtQwf

Mon, 12 Dec 2011 08:10:34 -0500

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When Meeting Women Do You Overcomplicate Things? http://t.co/bFQJGhtY

Mon, 12 Dec 2011 08:06:56 -0500

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Speed Dating: Nervous/Dubious?! Ever been speed dating? Nervous about going on your own? Dubious...

Mon, 12 Dec 2011 08:03:39 -0500

Speed Dating: Nervous/Dubious?!

Ever been speed dating? Nervous about going on your own? Dubious about the clientele?

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The Top 10 Christmas Gift Ideas for a Girlfriend It’s Christmas time, and it’s time to...

Fri, 09 Dec 2011 02:30:25 -0500

The Top 10 Christmas Gift Ideas for a Girlfriend

It’s Christmas time, and it’s time to share some love with your girlfriend for being there by your side through all this time. You want to express how you feel towards her in a rather unique way, however, and you’ve simply run out of ideas. It’s good to buy her flowers, cards and sweet treats every now and then, but since it’s the holiday season, you want to give her something unlike anything you’ve ever given her. Below is a list of Christmas gift ideas for the special woman in your life:

Treat her to some jewelry. A pair of diamond earrings will do the trick, although you can decide on whether to get her studs or dangling ones. For research, take a look at her collection to get a good idea of what she likes to wear.

A fashion bracelet would also be a good gift for your girlfriend. There are an abundance of choices to make, from sterling sliver to gemstone encrusted ones.

For her jewelry collection, you can get her a rather unique looking jewelry box where she can keep all her collection in. Some of the most popular choices are made from cherry or oak wood

You can take her out for a bit of pampering. Treat her out to a spa and give her some peace and relaxation after such a stressful week at work. She’ll definitely be in a good mood once she spends time with you.

A lot of women would like to lather on creamy soap and splash water in the tub with a few scents. Perhaps you might want to buy her a bath and shower set, especially those which come in nice packaging and with recognizable brands.

A pashima shawl is something that will cater to her fashion sense and is a practical piece of clothing which can help during those cold winter nights. They possess a certain elegance and are really classy to look at. You can find several colors and designs available, all of which are “one size fits all!”

If you want something totally crazy and romantic at the same time, send her a video of yourself expressing your love for her. You can gather a few friends to make a music video or something along those lines.

Gather up a few friends from the old days and celebrate Christmas with her. A surprise reunion party will no doubt enjoy the company, as well as be thankful for rekindling her childhood memories.

Go out on a rather special date this Christmas. You both could take a walk along the park or have a romantic candlelight dinner for two at her favorite restaurant. Of course, since it’s Christmas, you’ll need to book everything in advance.

Nothing expresses love more than giving her something which you made completely from scratch. Her face will light up when she sees the effort you put into crafting something ingenious for her. This, along with the aforementioned Christmas gift ideas, will truly show how much you value her in your life.

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Ways To Get A Girl Through Compliance By far one of the best ways to get a girl is to give her...

Fri, 09 Dec 2011 02:30:18 -0500

Ways To Get A Girl Through Compliance

By far one of the best ways to get a girl is to give her small commands and making them big over time. So, the more you can get the girl to do things for you, the more likely she will become attracted to you.

It’s a fact that a woman is born with the basic instinct to be a caregiver. All women are “wired” this way. They almost can’t help themselves: they will do the caregiving to you and the offspring if you have one.

So, the more you can get a girl to do things for you, the more she will like you; and that will peak in her falling in love with you.

Increase Compliance Increase Her Attraction

But the bottom line is that you have to have the guts to give women commands. You are going to have to have some guts, and just be a man about it. I know it’s hard in the beginning, but a woman is hardwired to react in the same way as she was programmed, which is to serve a man.

I am not saying for you to be abusive to the woman, but you have just been given a glimpse of a “Badboy” type and how he attracts women.

The command can be actually really small and simple, like a friendly “Hi!” That’s a command for a response. Or you could ask this: “Could you please hand me a napkin?”

This is a small compliance test but it is the beginning. Bigger and bigger you make the command as the relationship grows. Here is an example:

-A chair or a napkin: ask them for a bar related thing.

-Ask her her name.

-Ask her to give you her hand.

-Movement in the venue: ask her to go to your table.

-Start to touch her (Hand, back, arms, and so on).

-Kiss her.

-Tell her to give you her number.

-Reveal to her that she is going to love the place that’s going to be her first date with you.

-Tell her to go back to your place after the date.

Sometimes, for whatever reason, she will not comply to your requests. Whenever this occurs, that just means that you do not have as much attraction from her. The solution is to tease her, tell her a short story about your life, then ask her the command again. The more compliance you get, the more she will like you.

If you can master this way to get a girl through compliance, you will have a lot of women in your life.

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Ways To Get A Girl Through Compliance By far one of the best ways to get a girl is to give her...

Fri, 09 Dec 2011 02:30:16 -0500

Ways To Get A Girl Through Compliance

So, the more you can get a girl to do things for you, the more she will like you; and that will peak in her falling in love with you.

Increase Compliance Increase Her Attraction

I am not saying for you to be abusive to the woman, but you have just been given a glimpse of a “Badboy” type and how he attracts women.

The command can be actually really small and simple, like a friendly “Hi!” That’s a command for a response. Or you could ask this: “Could you please hand me a napkin?”

This is a small compliance test but it is the beginning. Bigger and bigger you make the command as the relationship grows. Here is an example:

-A chair or a napkin: ask them for a bar related thing.

-Ask her her name.

-Ask her to give you her hand.

-Movement in the venue: ask her to go to your table.

-Start to touch her (Hand, back, arms, and so on).

-Kiss her.

-Tell her to give you her number.

-Reveal to her that she is going to love the place that’s going to be her first date with you.

-Tell her to go back to your place after the date.

If you can master this way to get a girl through compliance, you will have a lot of women in your life.

For more information on ways to get a girl and to receive a special report called, “How To Flirt With Women And Have Them Love You For It!” and more information, go to http://ow.ly/7Rueq

The Top 10 Christmas Gift Ideas for a Girlfriend It’s Christmas time, and it’s time to...

Fri, 09 Dec 2011 02:30:14 -0500

The Top 10 Christmas Gift Ideas for a Girlfriend

A fashion bracelet would also be a good gift for your girlfriend. There are an abundance of choices to make, from sterling sliver to gemstone encrusted ones.

For her jewelry collection, you can get her a rather unique looking jewelry box where she can keep all her collection in. Some of the most popular choices are made from cherry or oak wood

Gather up a few friends from the old days and celebrate Christmas with her. A surprise reunion party will no doubt enjoy the company, as well as be thankful for rekindling her childhood memories.

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Hey Girls, Give Guys a Break - Most Men Are Terrified, So Go Up to Him, He Just Might Be the...

Thu, 08 Dec 2011 04:30:07 -0500

Hey Girls, Give Guys a Break - Most Men Are Terrified, So Go Up to Him, He Just Might Be the One!

Now here is the funny thing about women/girls…

They are too afraid to approach a guy because they don’t’ want to be rejected, because they say they couldn’t handle that… Yet, when a guy who likes you and is attracted to you, if you don’t like the guy or if you are to intimidated by his confidence or made uncomfortable with him because he’s shy or nervous, instead of taking it as a compliment when he approaches you, you rip him a new one and basically disrespect and or embarrass him in public…

And then you turn around and say, “How come men don’t approach me?”

Hmmmm… I wonder??? hahaha…

After a guy has passed his teen years, women, girls have severely humiliated him, embarrassed him and deeply wounded him emotionally and socially. Many, many confident guys are terrified of approaching girls they like! And many times they are the exact guys you want to approach you.

Seriously, just as much as you want men/guys to develop better ways to approach you and open a conversation with you that makes you comfortable, that also goes the other way.

Guys would like it just as much if you begin to learn how to relax, stay calm and just go with the flow instead of getting so uptight and angry! hahaha….

Look, dating and meeting new people is a bit difficult and strange and can be very hard in the modern world…

And what women really know is that just as much as women are concerned about their social standing in their groups publicly, so are men/guys. So give these guys a break and help them out a little.

That doesn’t mean you have to give him your number or go out with him, but you could learn better ways to say, “No”, or “No Thank you”, but it was nice that you came up to me and talked with me, etc.

Now, on the other hand, a lot, ok, most men can come off as way to intrusive and in your face when they first meet you, not realizing how intimidating or pushy that can be….

And yes, I clearly, clearly realize that most men talk to fast and at times can completely dominate the conversation…

But I will tell you this… most men are so intimidated by women, because since puberty, guys have really been trying to meet you and talk with you and yet, kiss you and have sex with you…

But, because men can be very linear and invasive and way to pushy, most girls will get mad or angry or scared or flat-out mean… And this has caused a lot of men to be completely afraid to approach you girls…

In fact, the #2 reason men come to me, is because the majority of men are terrified of women, especially in public social context… And at the same time, this is where women feel most safe meeting a stranger, because hey, if he’s a weirdo, you can walk away or yell for help, etc.

I guess, overall what I am saying, is that many men are quiet damaged when it comes to approaching a girl even if this girl is giving him all the green lights to approach and talk to her.

But deep, deep down inside and actually it’s not that deep, you can see it! Most men are just flat terrified to approach women and start-up conversations. Period…

And that’s why 10% of the guys get all the girls and date a lot of girls, because for one reason or another they are not intimidated by women or public situations at all…

And yet, that nice guy who you say you have been looking for is right there and wishes he could meet you, but is too afraid… So:

#1 Why not go up to him and start-up a conversation… you will meet a ton more guys and have a lot better options if you do. And, you will be surprised how aggressive these guys can be once they get passed that initial stage of meeting you; not only socially, but also in the bedroom…

Yeah, yeah, I know, most women assume that the way a man dances or the way a man is when she first meets him is the way he is in bed. And I will absolutely tell you, that is absolutely not true at all and is the most false ways you can judge a man sexually!

Yes, guys, women believe that if you or shy or nice when you meet them, that you are boring in the sack! And also, women completely judge you sexually by the way you dance.

Now here’s the thing, this may or may not be true for women, but when it comes to men, you are completely wrong in many, many cases about how a man dances and how that may or may not compare to his sexual prowess…

Men and women are completely different… the way a man shows his sexual prowess is how he kicks ass in sports like football or boxing or in street fighting… But not dancing! Come on ladies, get real… hahaha..

A girl expresses her sexuality on the dance floor… I mean, that’s the feminine way to express your sexual vibe right?

Ok, so men, if you have been reading this, know this, the main reason those few guys get all the women is for 1 reason and 1 reason only!

“They approach and meet and talk to a lot of women/girls and just keep on talking to them and having fun with them!”

So get your butt out there and start-up conversations with anyone! I’m serious…

Now here’s the deal… I don’t care if it’s your sister or mother or the old lady next door. The more conversations you have with women, the more experience points you get…

Now you might be thinking, but I don’t want to have sex with my mother or sister or the old lady next door…

Fine, I don’t care! But, But, any time you interact with women, you unconsciously begin to learn how to interact with women and that is what this entire game is all about…

*** I will give you this really big, big, big hint/tip about women…

#1 Women absolutely must talk to you and get to know you over time before even thinking about having sex with you.

So, when you are with women in non sexual experiences, such as with your mom or sister or old lady next door, that is absolutely perfect, because you need to develop this ability in order to learn how to interact with women in a non sexual way…

Because when women first meet you, because of the way women are wired, #1 is not sex at all… I am literally serious… She is hard-wired neurologically to meet you first and talk and get to know you and have fun with you first!

She literally can’t help it! In fact anything other than that is odd, weird and flat-out strange to her nervous system and mind and confuses her….

Women flat-out can’t comprehend why men want sex so fast… to her system, that is a weird, foreign and odd situation…

So forget sex! Forget it, forget it, forget it…

But, not for too long! Because you absolutely do not want to get into the friends zone, because that is almost impossible to get out of! Period…

So when you first meet her, check her out. Find out if she’s interesting and fun. Find out if she has her life together or if she’s just going to be 1 big problem… Take your time… forget about sex at this point, because if you do, it will really open her up to the possibliity of sex with you eventually!

I know, I know, it sounds backwards, but, there literally is a method to this madness when it comes to understanding, loving and making love to women!

So for now, get out there and just spend time with women, girls, anyone who is female for now, and you will learn a lot!

And for the ladies, for now, why don’t you start to work on building men’s confidence up and helping a guy out! Try to be a bit nicer and a bit more comforting. You might just help out the next girl so he can relax and realize, not all women are out for blood! So ease up a little and realize, men are a bit intimidated by women in this arena. http://mikekollin.com

Good Luck!

This is Mike Kollin The Love Doctor

Your Dating and Relationship Expert / Coach San Rafael Ca. Marin County, San Francisco

If you really want to understand the opposite sex and increase the level of communication and understanding, then give us a call and we will be glad to help you!

Helping single men learn how to effectively approach and meet girls in an easy and fun way!

And helping single girls land that special guy!

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Hey Girls, Give Guys a Break - Most Men Are Terrified, So Go Up to Him, He Just Might Be the...

Thu, 08 Dec 2011 04:30:06 -0500